A Little Tenderness
“I only have eyes for you. When are you going to let me take you to dinner?” he’d say, peering over the changing room stall.
Los Angeles, 1997
I have one hour until I go out on a date with Lenny. A tall, thin club promoter with a shaved head. I met him four years ago at Wasteland, a vintage clothing store on Melrose. Whenever I went there, I’d run into him in the changing rooms. I wasn’t sure if he was straight since we’d always be eyeing the same skirt.
“Any new romances?” I’d ask, as we tried on clothes.
“I only have eyes for you. When are you going to let me take you to dinner?” he’d say, peering over the changing room stall.
“You only like me because I’m not giving in to you. You must have a thing for hard-to-get women,” I’d tease, laughing him off.
I finally agreed to go out with him because I’d made a real effort to do what most single people do: date. My last date had been with a guy who quit his day job to become a clown. A girl whose aerobics class I took at the gym had set me up with her brother, it was a blind date. This time I thought I’d give it a try with someone I already knew.
“It’s ladies’ choice tonight. Whatever you want to do,” Lenny said over the phone from his club.
The previous night I had canceled on him.
“It better be important. I’ve been looking forward to this all day,” he’d mumbled.
I read a book and made some brussels sprouts. The next day when he called at noon, I said okay. It was a real push to get out the door to go out with him. I put my hair in rollers but no Nair on my upper lip. I didn’t plan on kissing him.
Lenny picked me up ten minutes before nine, just as I had taken the curlers out of my hair.
“Shalom,” I said as he kissed me on the forehead.
“Shalom. You know, I don’t want to disappoint you, but I’m not really Jewish. I mean, my adopted parents are. Actually, I met my real mom the other day. She told me she was a sixteen-year-old showgirl in Vegas when she got pregnant with me. The owner of the hotel where she worked, Bobby, sent her away for the whole nine months. He was the love of her life. She said he was pretty good about it and paid for her to stay in some resort in Palm Springs. He’d fly down and visit her once a week.
‘I sang to you every day,’ she told me. ‘I was the happiest I had ever been. I thought as soon as I had you, I’d bring you with me and I’d go back to Vegas and dance again. I was young, just a kid really. I thought Bobby just wanted his baby to be healthy. Sending me away to swim and lay by the pool all day, you see, I just didn’t know what was happening. Then you were born and, well, Bobby said he didn’t think it was right to raise our baby in a casino.’
Anyway, I’m not Jewish. You know, I don’t know what to do with that experience. Where do I put her in my address book? I’ve been trying to write a song about it.”
Lenny opened the door to his blue pick-up truck for me. A box of McDonald’s French Fries was scattered on the passenger seat. Lenny brushed them onto the car floor with a dirty sock before I sat down.
“Check this out,” he said, cueing up his music as we headed to Laemmle, a theater complex on Sunset Boulevard. “My new band. We’re really onto something. It took me a long time to move on from Cloud Ten. Who knows, I might have ended up like Freddy if I continued being their drummer. Heroin man, some nasty shit. I only like weed.”
Lenny tried to hold my hand as we got into the elevator. He stared at the floor levels as I looked at Cary Grant on the wall. On level three, two ghost-white musician types with blue-black hair stepped in. A guy and a girl.
“Sandy,” Lenny said giving the girl an extra-long hug.
“Oh, my god. I haven’t seen you, when was the last time? Was I flat chested then? I know, at Lollapalooza, you were with Rebecca. No, oh, I don’t know. It’s so good to see you,” she said planting a wet black kiss on his cheek. “This is Darr, my friend, no, what did we decide yesterday? Boyfriend, but we’re like, open,” she said, turning to me with a sly wink of her long, silver false eyelashes.
Sandy and Darr began to fidget under the fluorescent lights. Darr took out a pair of rhinestone cat glasses and put them on. Sandy took out a matching pair and put them on as well.
“Oh, this is,” Lenny began to say, looking over to me as the elevator door opened.
“See ya,” Sandy said with a wave of her veiny pale hand as Darr tugged her away.
“You’re so cool,” Lenny said, tucking a stray, blonde curl behind my ear. “I’m used to girls being really jealous. I can just tell you’re not that type. I think I can really be myself with you.”
I felt like telling him, “Yeah, with you I’m not jealous. But believe me, with someone else I sure could be.”
I met my real mom the other day. She told me she was a sixteen-year-old showgirl in Vegas when she got pregnant with me. The owner of the hotel where she worked, Bobby, sent her away for the whole nine months. He was the love of her life.
At the Virgin Megastore we listened to world music, rhythms of African-Celt, Latin, and the latest in techno. He bought me a CD that I liked, Mazzy Star.
“That is so generous of you. Thank you,” I said.
“Just make me a copy,” he replied.
I wanted to hand it back to him then. How did he know we would see each other again? He put his arm around me as we strolled up the escalator to see Woody Allen’s Sweet and Low Down. The whole time I kept thinking what it would be like to see the movie alone. Or beside someone I was attracted to. Why couldn’t I just be easygoing about it?
Every ten minutes Lenny leaned in close to me whispering, “More Junior Mints? Popcorn?”
I soon had a combination of the two melting in my hands. I thought about how different these would taste if I were alone. Is he enjoying this movie more than I am? Is he even paying attention to it with me beside him?
As we watched the movie, I thought if I were attracted to him, how aware I’d be of his hand, the feeling of our legs almost touching, sitting so close to one another. I wanted to feel the nervous tension of Lenny’s thigh next to mine. But I just didn’t. Yet how would Lenny guess I was so indifferent? Were we so easily deceived? He might have perceived my distance as nervousness. Or a stranger, trying to interpret my giddiness over chamomile tea after the movie, that it was I who liked Lenny more than he liked me. For I’m the happier looking one. I often wonder about that. A couple, walking arm in arm, is he who looks happier in fact, the one who is more in love? Or is the glum person more in love?
“You’re so cool,” Lenny said, tucking a stray, blonde curl behind my ear. “I’m used to girls being really jealous. I can just tell you’re not that type. I think I can really be myself with you.”
“You know, I’m thirty now,” Lenny said gazing into my eyes. “My friends around me, some of them are beginning to make me think about things I’ve never thought about before. I had this dream the other night that a little Lenny was floating above my bed. Man, he was so beautiful. His eyes were, oh you know the color of the coral reefs? Yeah, his eyes were like giant reefs. Heavy, sleepy eyelids, like yours. And this incredible woman lay next to me. A warm, cozy type. I was gliding my cheek on her silky, smooth, porcelain stomach. She had the kind of belly that when I’d lay my head on it, I felt like I was sinking into her womb. I woke up and, why am I telling you this?”
He cocked his head, slightly to one side, waiting for me to say something. I lowered my eyes, staring into the pool of clover honey at the bottom of my teacup. I stuck my thumb in it and licked it off. Lenny looked out the window and continued.
“I went to the club that day, as usual, but the dream stayed with me. I missed little Lenny. I missed that comforting, warm, unknown woman next to me.”
Art by Patrick McCarthy
I began to button up my dark gray sweater. I wanted to go home. I felt for him, but this was too much. Despite being close to his age, floating babies were not on my mind. Nor did I want them to be.
“I have to tell you, Lenny, I like someone right now.”
This wasn’t exactly a lie. Don’t we all like someone at any given time? It doesn’t mean we even have to know the person’s name. I wish I had said this before the movie. A slight smile of relief spread across my face.
Lenny carried on as if he didn’t hear me, talking real fast. “I just got dumped, you know. I mean, I’ve done my share of that. I guess I had it coming, but I really liked this girl. We were living together. Everything seemed good. I’d go to my club, Dead End, around noon. We’d have dinner together, and then she’d go back to the club with me. She helped me run things. One night, I came home as usual, at five. I brought her favorite kind of sushi for dinner. Spicy eel and avocado rolls. I even went out of my way to pick up a couple of fortune cookies at this Chinese place we’d go to. Our whole fridge was covered with our fortunes that she had taped on. So, I came home and she wasn’t there. I went to put the eel, which I hate, in the fridge. She had removed her fortunes from the fridge. She’d taken off with her old boyfriend. Now I sit in my apartment on this fuzzy leopard thing she picked out as a rug, and stare at her fat, orange cat. I don’t even like cats. She left it there. I’m like some chick, waiting for the phone to ring. I was at the club the other night and suddenly thought what if I miss her call? I left and drove so fast over to ‘Good Guys’ to get a caller ID.”
Lenny stared down at his feet. “You know that guy you like? He can’t be that great if you’re out with me. I hear what you’re saying though.”
Shit. I didn’t know what to say. I felt like crying. Only a few months earlier, a guy I liked tried to let me off easy. Trying to tell me in a roundabout way that I didn’t turn him on. “I hear what you’re saying,” I had said to him.
Love is not one person obsessing. It’s mutual obsession. I leaned over and kissed Lenny’s cheek. The loving couple across from us looked over. I took his hand and held it in mine.






Another beautiful story! Flawless, really.
Woah, this one touched close to home: been on both sides of that exchange.
If "Fade Into You" was on that CD, it was all worthwhile IMO.